Obituaries & Condolences

Bruce Vermeulen, 65, of Columbus, NY passed away at his home on Friday, April 22, 2022, following a short but aggressive illness.

Cherished husband of Elizabeth (Mandaro). Loving father and grandfather to Matthew and Owen.
Bruce was preceded in death by his parents George and Eleanor Vermeulen, his brother William, sister-in-law Kandy Vermeulen, and brother-in-law James Cooke.


In addition to his wife Elizabeth, son Matthew, and grandson Owen, who always brought him much joy and laughter, Bruce leaves his sister and brother-in-law Anita and Harold Bontekoe, his mother-in-law Katherine Mandaro, his 2 sisters-in-law Jean Kennedy and Joan Cooke, many wonderful nieces and nephews, and even more cousins.
Born in Paterson, New Jersey, Bruce spent most of his childhood in North Haledon, New Jersey. He always said he had the best childhood a boy could ever have.


He attended Eastern Christian school in NJ, where he developed his love for soccer and was the goalie on his high school team for several years. He loved all aspects of soccer and was involved in coaching his son’s teams for many years.  Bruce was also an avid fan of international football (soccer) especially the English Premier League, and he was a die-hard Arsenal fan, donning his Arsenal scarf and hat while watching many a game.


Bruce attended St John’s University College of Insurance where he met Elizabeth, his wife of almost 42 years. They were married in 1980 in Regina Pacis Basilica in Brooklyn, NY.


He was employed by Prudential Reinsurance Company as a Reinsurance Underwriter in Newark, NJ. He traveled extensively for work, and told the story that one day he woke up and had to check the phone book to remember what city he was in. At that point, Bruce and Elizabeth decided they needed to make a life change. So they moved to their current farm in Columbus NY and began dairy farming, milking for about 10 years. Bruce returned to an insurance job for a while as they expanded their sheep flock.  At one point they had one of the largest commercial sheep operations in the area, working with Cornell University and other large central NY sheep farmers marketing lambs under the cooperative New York Specialty Lamb. Later they marketed lambs to a third-generation butcher in NYC.


Bruce loved horses and was so happy when they brought horses back onto the farm several years ago. He taught himself to drive their Standardbred horse with his Amish cart, and enjoyed driving around the farm fields and local roads. He also enjoyed watching the professional rodeo circuit.


He derived much pleasure from each of the many dogs they had through the years; primarily Border Collies and Livestock Guardian Dogs for their sheep operation.


Bruce was very involved in Town of Columbus government for many years as a member of the Town Board and as the Town Supervisor. He was also a long-time member of the Fair Lawn Memorial Cemetery Board of Directors in Fair Lawn, NJ.


During his adolescence and until he moved to Central New York, Bruce was actively involved in St. Paul’s Episcopal Church in Paterson, NJ as a sacristan and later as a member of the vestry. He was also an active member of St Matthew’s Episcopal Church in South New Berlin, NY where he was a member of the vestry

Visiting hours will be:
Wednesday, April 27, 2022 from 4 pm to 7 pm at Dakin Funeral Home, 17 N Main St, New Berlin, NY 13411
Thursday, April 28, 2022 from 4 pm to 7 pm at Vander Plaat Memorial Home, 113 South Farview Ave, Paramus, NJ 07652
A short service will take place on Friday, April 29, 2022 at 11 am at Vander Plaat Memorial Home before proceeding to Fair Lawn Memorial Cemetery.
A Memorial Service will be held at St Matthew’s Church at a later date.

Special Thanks to the Doctors, Nurses, and staff at Bassett Hospital and the Nurses at Hospice of Chenango for their excellent care at this difficult time.
In lieu of flowers, Memorial Donations may be made to:
Friends of Bassett Healthcare Network, 1 Atwell Rd, Cooperstown, NY 13326
Hospice and Palliative Care of Chenango County, Dept DN, 33-39 Court St, Norwich, NY 13815
St. Matthew’s Episcopal Church, PO Box 18, South New Berlin, NY 13843

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David A. Reid
Murfreesboro TN

Sorry to hear Bruce has gone home. Well, glad he is with the Lord, but sad for those he left behind. Bruce and I were in the Boy Scouts together, did summer school together- he had to make up classes from his Hodgkins, I was just lazy. We rode our minibikes in the woods behind Lord of Life church where we had Scouts. I have not seen Bruce since the 1970s, I'm happy he had a successful life. God bless you , Elizabeth and give you the comfort that only He can.

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Diana Hayes
New Berlin NY

Bruce was a great person. Our boys played soccer together... Oh the memories... We would sit and chat about soccer for hours.  I am so sorry to hear of his passing. Our family was on vacation when this happened so I am just hearing of this.  Liz  my heart goes out to you and Matt

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David Lewis Blenheim,
Ontario, Canada

I will never forget working with Bruce. We did many things together on the farm.
It was one of the best jobs I ever had. He was a great person.. we made many memories.. RIP Bruce!

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Bryan & Ruthann Smith
Sherburne, NY

 So sorry to hear of Bruce's passing, may God be with you Elizabeth, Matt, Owen and other relatives at this time offering comfort and peace. Bruce was a quiet but smart man who always thought before he spoke. He could warm the room with his presence and knowledge. He will be greatly missed by all who knew him and all who had the honor of being his friend. God Bless!!

 

 
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